kissing

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One of the biggest thing that can turn people on is a good kiss and this can also mean that you likely to have a lot of fun in the bedroom. It is a commonly known thing that a bad kiss can damage your chances of taking a partner to bed and this is before you even get your foot through the door. There are some key points to being a good kisser so once you have mastered these then you should be able to become a good kisser.


The first thing that you need to do is to start of slowly and then gradually turn the heat up.


Although it might be very tempting to go at it full throttle especially on your first kiss this is a very bad idea. Although you may think that this is a good way to express all of your pent up passion this can actually come across as very scary for your partner. It is actually far sexier to begin the kiss slowly and gently and build up to a very fast and erotic kiss. It is a good idea to picture a kiss as being a bit like fire, you need to do some kindling and then create a spark. The amount of time that it takes to ignite the flame will depend on the mood that you are both in.

Start with the lips and then move onto the tongue


It is best to relax you lips and part them slightly as they make contact with your partner’s lips. Do not suddenly put your tongue into your partner’s mouth. First of all you need to let your tongue brush against your partners lips gently and wait to see if she will instigate more. If she responds by using her tongue to touch your tongue with hers this should be taken as an invitation to enter. Keep your tongue responsive whilst keeping it flexible however keep it a little stiff so that it is not totally flaccid.


Remember to leave breathing room


It is very important to ensure that you do not block the airway of your partners. It is best to avoid getting into the position where your noses are squashed together and it is also very important to come up for air. It is also very important to remember to breath whilst you are kissing, it is possible to exhale and inhale through your nose even whilst your lips are joined together.

It is important to have an element of giving and taking

Kissing is a little bit like dancing with your partner, it has to be the correct moment and you have to be attentive and sensitive to the feeling and mood of you partner. It is very important to remember that the best kissing has a back and forth motion and this will help you to deliver a quality response. It is a good idea to try out things and see how your partner reacts to it. If your partner responds positively either vocally or buy movements then continue however if your partner ignores it then move on and elaborate and take the lead from your partner.


It is best only use a little amount of saliva.


The expression swapping spit is only a way of speech your partner is very unlikely to actually want a mouthful of your saliva. It is a good idea to use your moistened tongue a little and use it to moisten your lips a little so that you can keep things moist and lubricated, as this will enable each other’s lips to move together easily. There is actually no one that enjoys a kiss that is too dry as this will cause chafing and no one enjoys a sloppy and slippery kiss either.


It is a good idea to gently nibble


It is a good idea to gently use your teeth to nibble your partner’s lip and possibly gently tug on it also. It is very important to be gentle though when you do this as you do not want to cause any injuries. The edges on your teeth can sometimes be sharp to the lips and mouth due to the sensitive tissues. The best way to do this is to take the lower lip of your partner between your lips then gently suck on it between your open teeth. You should then use your teeth to put some light pressure on your partners lip. It is very important not to nip your partner’s lip, as you do not want to draw blood.


It is good to use your hands


It is a very good idea to use your hands to touch your partner whilst you are kissing them. You could use your hands to caress your partners face, back of their neck, the ears and also through their hair. These little added extras can greatly add to the romance and level of passion. The things that you are able to do will greatly depend on the position that you are in. It is very important to not use the kiss as an opportunity to touch her breasts or her bum, as this will more than likely cause offence and spoil the moment. It is very important to move slowly as you explore the other areas.

Less can actually be more.


Some of the most exciting and sexist times are when your lips are barely touching during kissing. This is certainly a thing that is worth trying. The best way to do it is to pull back for a second or two and use this time to gaze into your partner’s eyes. If this is done properly it will be very exciting for both of you.


Remember to stay focused


There are a lot of men who think of kissing as the lead up to sexual activity. In some cases this is actually very true however whilst you are at the kissing stage it is very important to concentrate on it. If your mind starts to wonder your partner will be able to pick up on this and it will ruin the moment. It is best to see the kiss as the end in itself and not the start of being able to undress her.


Make use of your mouth during seduction

It is a very good idea to use your mouth during seduction so that you leave your partner wanting more. The way that you kiss should come across as just the taste of what you are about. There is a lot of woman who use the way that a man kisses to judge how passionate and sensitive he actually is. It is therefore a good idea to demonstrate a good level of mouth-to-mouth contact and this way she will be leading you to the bedroom in no time at all.

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